12 Signs He’s the Real Deal! You’re the one he wants to be with YOU.
A few of my life lessons for all the ladies. I’ll tell it to the hot, I’ll tell it to the cold. I’ll tell it to the young; I’ll tell it to the old. I don’t want any laughing, I don’t want any crying, and most of all, no signifying
1. HE WILL ALWAYS BE ALWAYS ON HER SIDE.
If we are out and about, there’s nothing she could do or say that will make her wrong in his present.
2. HE PREFERS TO HANG OUT WITH Her...
She is someone; He can confide in and be around without concern.
3. He is HONEST, EVEN WHEN IT HURTS…
His intention is never to hurt her, only to help her understand that while the truth is not always a fantastic thing, it is a necessary thing. Most guys will tell her they’re honest, but when it gets down to it, they’re just telling her what she wants to hear because they want to avoid trouble.
Remember…Truth is love, but silence is abuse
4. HE IS A STRONG & PROTECTIVE MAN...
No matter the situation, He will never be cowered in a corner and await the problem to pass. He will protect her like a gentleman and puts her first every single time.
5. HE WANTS TO SPEND THE HOLIDAYS WITH HER.
He will let go of old customs and taking up new ones with her. This is a huge step for him, so be sure to take notice!
6. WE BECOME ONE.
He could have opted to go alone and not deal with everyone’s stress asking about her, but he chooses to ask her to be plus one!
7. HE TALKS ABOUT HIS PAST.
He will tell her about his past (good or bad) and shares my secrets with her; He will open up to her and trusts that she will hold on to his secrets.
8. HE WILL SURPRISES HER.
Moreover, so when He surprised her with a weekend getaway, a gift of something she was looking at together, or even a day to the spa, He has put thought into doing this particular thing for her.
9. He WILL RESPECT HER SPACE
Her time will always be her own, and He doesn’t try to undermine or prevent you from maintaining personal relationships with acquaintances or family.
10. HE IS PROTECTIVE of HER.
If He is protective of her, it means He is starting to do things such as… instantly get furious if someone else screws with her or does something to hurt her. If a person is against her, then He will be by her side and immediately defend her. I am “with you,” a partner in this world.
I mean by protection, if He sees a situation causing you negative feelings, whether it is a person, situation, or anything getting in the way of your happiness, then He will instinct will be to protect you.
11. HE IS AFFECTIONATE WITH HER. (AKA Intimacy with Her)
By affectionate, I mean more than just having sex with her. If he is affectionate, He will do things such as hold your hand in a specific direction that feels loving and kind. He will snuggle with her for the sake of it. If He will find that she is sad and hug her.
12. HE DOES ASK HER INPUT FOR FUTURE DECISIONS (AKA Respect and Value Your Opinion)
He does care about her opinion regarding major life decisions and serious, significant situations in his life. If he is thinking of purchasing a house, a car, or moving., He will take this up to her because her opinion matters to HIM.
The Bottom-line ladies…Fuck Christian Grey/Boys/douche bags/assholes/players (men who talk and don’t walk their talk or do not follow through, aka lack of actions). These are not Dominant men.
A True Dominant is just a leader for a woman so. A true Dominant is ambitious & hardworking, creative problem solve, and an effective decision-maker who takes responsibility and follows through on what He said to others.
So, Ladies, get yourself a MAN who will listen to YOUR needs & fulfill them, who’ll hear YOUR concerns & silence them, who’ll discover YOUR boundaries & push them safely. If you are lucky enough to have someone in YOUR life strong enough to handle YOUR desire to submit, let go & don’t look back.