Most men and more than a few women want to have their own personal slut but don’t know how to go about finding the right type of person to make into their idea of a slut and if they should find someone they aren’t sure about to go about turning them into a slut. This article is intended to help. Now sluts can be male or female, but this article is going to focus on females.

The first thing you need to know is where to find your slut. I personally like finding them online. Why, you may ask? Simple, it is secure. You have access to millions of other people from around the world, and you can do it all from the comfort of your own house. Add to that that you do not have to worry about what you are wearing, awkward physical movements, getting tongue-tied, etc. Online you can take some time to think about what you want to say before you say it. Now, where online do you meet these women? I like local area chat rooms or chat rooms that involve a particular interest of yours. This gives you something in common right from the get-go. Something in common means you have something to talk about, i.e., something to build on. After all, just like in real life, you can’t just go up to a woman (or man) and start talking about sex or ask them if they want to be your slut, no, of course not. You must lay a foundation first. All good relationships start as friendships.

Okay, now that you have a hunting ground, you need a target. You either want to start young (18-20ish) or middle-aged (mid 30’s-mid 40’s and even early 50’s). Why these two age groups? The reason you want a young woman (or man) is that they are less likely to have sexual experience and preconceptions as to what is taboo, gross, or painful. For example, a young girl with limited or no sexual experience is more likely to be curious about all things sexual and thus more willing to try new things. Their curiosity works in your favor. Therefore, you need to do your homework and be as knowledgeable about sex as you can be or at least the various things you’re interested in, especially if you have never tried them before. For the first age group, which is all for now. On to the second group.

Why middle-aged women? Because they tend to be more open-minded and adventurous when it comes to sexual experimentation, especially those who have been in a restrictive marriage and are recently divorced. Middle-aged women tend to want to get a little wild and sow their wild oats before they feel they are too old to do that type of thing anymore. They can be just as curious or even more so than young women and just as anxious to explore sexually.

The next thing is knowing what you want. This is especially important, the most essential part of looking for a slut to mold. Now, I am not talking about hair color, breast size, or even body type; although that is important for a lot of people, it is not what I am talking about right now. If you do not find someone attractive, you are not likely to want to turn him or her into your own personal slut anyway. You should try and be at least a little flexible when it comes to a person’s physical traits. If someone has everything else, you want how vital is their hair color or whether they are a few pounds overweight. For some, it is essential for others, not so big. When I say it is essential to know what you want, I mean sexually. For example, if anal or oral sex is important to you, then obviously you will not be happy with someone who does not like doing those sex acts or is very reluctant to even try them. You also would not want to be with someone interested in group sex or multiple sex partners if you are the jealous type. Again, this is where your sexual knowledge comes into play. Do your research! I cannot stress this enough. Make yourself an expert in everything you like to do or want to try. Wikipedia.org is a great resource to gain sexual knowledge.
You can look up a term, and, often, you will find the answers you are looking for. There are other sources, of course, the internet is full of them just type what you want to know in your favorite search engine, and you’ll probably find a number of sites with the information you want. You also want to find out if there is more than one way to do something. Often, when a sex act is done one way, it can be uncomfortable or unpleasant, but when it is tried a unique way, it can be delightful and even become a favorite recent activity. An example of this is anal sex. When done correctly, it is very enjoyable, and you will want to do it repeatedly. When done wrong, it is very painful and can even cause physical damage, so do your research.

The next step is talking to your prospective slut and finding out what turns them on. If you cannot get your slut turned on, you will not get far; nor will they hang around for long. Start off slow. If you start off too hardcore, you are more likely to scare your perspective slut off than turn them on. Find out what positions they like, fun places where they would like to have sex or have already had sex, ask them about their fantasies, and the different things they want to try sexually. You can also go into personal grooming like how they like to wear their pubic hair to what type of underwear they like to wear. Then you can move onto the things you want and see if they share your interests, but do not be pushy if they do not. That type of behavior will just push them away. If they don’t like something hounding them about it is not going to help you get what you want, and if they do give in, they will most likely not enjoy it because they felt so pressured to try it in the first place. If it is important to you and they will not even consider it, then they are not the one for you.

Be honest and be yourself. Honesty is paramount in any relationship, especially a sexual one. If you tell someone you have a 10-inch cock, and you only have a 6-inch one, then they are going to be disappointed when they finally find out the truth. Same for you women, if you say you are a D-cup and are really a B, then your guy/girl is going to be disappointed when they find out the truth as well. Once you get caught (and you always do eventually), you lose all creditability.

Now, as for getting together, that often takes patience as well. If you met this person online, you do not want to suggest meeting after just an hour of conversation. They will make some excuse as to why they cannot, and you will never hear from them again. Take your time! Patience is extremely important when grooming someone to be your slut. If you meet online, the next step in talking on the phone. Again, take your time; after that, you meet in person. Always meet someplace public. A restaurant, a mall, someplace with security officers, and the right amount of people traffic. Do not worry about being overheard talking about sexual stuff because you will not be doing that when you first meet in person. Why? Because you need to feel each other out first, that is why. Now, you might do that later on the first date, and you might not. Do not expect it either way. You must feel that one out for yourself, though. If you rush it and move to fast, you might scare them away. At the same time, if you move too slowly, they might get frustrated or think you are not interested. So, use your own judgment, just do not expect things to go a certain way before you meet face to face for the first time.

The next thing is you must be creative. If you do the same thing the same way each time, it gets boring. There is nothing worse than a stale relationship. Stay safe, but do not be afraid to try new things in unfamiliar places. Do not be scared to ask others, including your slut for ideas. If you are like me, most of your friends are vanilla, and you cannot really go and ask them for ideas, but you can use various message boards like the ones here online. The online world has a wide variety of people from different social classes and cultures. There are other sites you can use as well; you just must look for them. I recommend bondage/BDSM related sites for this because the people from this lifestyle tend to be incredibly open-minded and less judgmental than most.

Lastly, be protective. Your slut needs to trust you and know in their heart that you will not allow harm to come to them. Once that happens, they will be more willing to try things they normally would not do because they trust you and believe you will not hurt them. Do not ever, ever abuse this. If you do, they will never really trust you again and will be a lot less likely to do the things you want them to if they don’t just leave you altogether.