When she needs a tender hand to stroke her face and ease her nerves, be that soothing presence that brings tranquility to chaos and peace to a troubled heart. There are times when you need to listen with care and put everything else aside and just love on them in their time of need.
Then there are times where you need to fuck her like she needs to be taught a lesson. A fucking so intense it leaves her shaking and exhausted and that feeling of bliss that can only be achieved by being used completely and brutally.
There are times to be gentle and times to be rough. Learning how to balance the two will bring balance to you both.